Soul mates ?? Is there such a thing, do I believe, is this a hopeless romantics view of the world. Hmmm pondering this question, I have always believed in the one person for everyone point of view, but only secretly, I would never spout out at dinner parties, how much I would love the ideal of there being just one lover for you in the world. My public view of this is ... there will never be just one person for everyone, you can adapt and sway to be with many people, I think a connection is possible with many similar souls. Is this true, is a mind connection with someone, thinking the same things at the same time, feeling warmth from each others smiles, happy to just be, is this something that can be found in many people of your liking. I'm not sure, I really struggled with this question, my romantic side fighting my more practical realistic side.
Someone who makes your heart race and pulse quicken and gives you butterfly tummies, is a keeper, but after the lust and love fades, the companionship and knowing in each other takes a new hold. But then should this person always hold your heart and can more than one person hold that key. I'm not sure, in my experience I suppose the one person only forever has waned and I'm not quite sure anymore of my realistic view of life, and seem to like the idea of a soul mate. I consider my girlfriends of soul mate quality looking at it from a different perspective, they love you, all your quirks and mistakes, they pick you up when you fall, they hold your hand when you cry and just have the ability to make you smile while shopping for a new pair of red heels. So yes I believe in soul mates, not just the posiblity of one but many throughout a lifetime.
