Monday, February 9, 2009

Groundhog


Its a new day ... same situation, wake up, get into life. Life as a thirty something is wonderful I must say, adult enough to naughty but young enough to know better. I met my GF's for a coffee this morning after a haul butt around the block. As adults do we need to grow up and see life for what it is. I have this illusion about romance, I love it, I love the fairy tale stuff, I like to think that exists in the world but I'm growing day by day disillusioned by this theory.


Amongst discussions, my GFs and I often talk about this, it seems all we want is a little more romance and equality in our relationships, does anyone have this after a certain amount of time with the same person, are humans supposed to be monogamous? I have often thought no. Not to say the grass is greener but certain people loose attraction after a while, and some never get it back. Do we stick at it like the old days living in a relationship that stales and makes us miserable or do we go against all beliefs in society and move on, putting our happiness first. Its unsoluable problem when children are involved that is for sure. I'm not so sure about the "mate for life" thing in humans. It eludes me, perhaps I'm a freak but going by my GFs and their GFs and mothers and grandmothers I'm changing my perception of my freakishness.

Anyway its all relevant in the worldly nature of this blog, I think and needs an airing and my GFs and I give it the air time needed. Yay for GF's.


Acronym dictionary, GF's = Girlfriends